Hey all!  Been awhile I know, but as I said in my last entry: lots of things have been going on!  My sis's wedding was beautiful.  Yes, I cried.   She's so happy, and they have moved to a quaint little apartment in San Fransico.  A long way from home...  They seem to like it though, and I can't blame them!

Ok people, you know what this site is for!  So use it!  I'm just dying to hear what you have to say, or have to ask.  That's what I'm here for!  So make good use of this, please!  I'll be on more often, hopefully.  Ask any kind of question!  I'm ready and prepared.

Have a wonderful Summer.

Megan S

Hey everyone!  I know this site is almost dead, but I thought I'd liven it up today. 

Uni got out last week.  So I'm a free woman!  Yay!  My sister is getting married in a few weeks, June 17th.  I've been SWAMPED with finals and wedding plans.  Just FYI, I passed every class with all A's, and my sis's wedding is going on without a hitch!  I'm so excited for her!

Now, I'm going to give some personal advice that I've recently discovered...

A couple years ago, when I graduated HS, I had this friend.  He was smart, cute, and charming.  A close friend of the two of us, a matchmaker of sorts, found out that we both liked eachother.  Pretty simple right?  No, not at all.  Things just got worse and worse...  From that time on, he'd had a girl friend or I had a boyfriend.  His girlfriend, who recently broke up with him, was with him since before I found out that he liked me.  I never condoned anything between us.  Well, I mean to say that we would hang out a lot, but never anything, ehem, personal.  Every summer we make plans to go to the lake and water ski, which we always did.  We'd hang out on a lot of the weekends we had at home.  Until recently, like I said, we both were tied down at some point or another.  His girlfriend broke up with him about three weeks ago.  I thought for sure that he would just ask me then and there, or at least talk to me differently.  Boy was I wrong!  I have only spoken a few words to him since then.  "Hi, whats up?" and "Oh, cool."  Things are not going as planned.  At all.  I still hear from my match maker friend that he likes me.  But why won't he say anything to me?  We used to stay up late and talk about how much we liked eachother.  Now it's all stupid and irrevelent.  I've currently given up on him.  Which makes me feel a lot better about this whole thing.  But still, I want to know what his problem is! 

Guys, who need 'em?

-Megan S

My older sister announced that she was engaged over the Christmas season, and since then, we (my whole entire family) have been swept into the joyous, and stressful, occasion known as: wedding planning.  My deepest apologies for not getting on sooner!  I logged onto my email this morning and it told me that I had a message...  And, unfortunately, this is the only time I could get on.

From now on I believe I'll be on a bit more regularly... Again, I'm so very sorry!

Megan

Roxtar15 writes:

anyways, so there is this guy that i've liked since the end of summer. i've tried not to like him, REALLY. all the evidence that i find out about him, it makes everything so wrong. but i continue to like him! is there hope for me? what should i do?! he's so cute and nice. but his morals and ethics aren't like mine... i just dunno! HELP!

Dear Roxtar15,

This is another question that has baffled the female and male sexes for, as long as the earth has been round.  Why do we like guys so un-attainable?  Why do we crush, when "all the evidence that i find out about him, it makes everything so wrong"?  It's crazy, and it sucks.  Welcome to the real world.  But then again, you probably didn't need to know that, I'm probably preaching to the choir. 

Here's what I think (after all, you didn't just reply to me for my health. Did you?)  Chill out.  Do you talk this guy?  Or are you an admire from afar?  If you are the first:

The friend, who can't stop wanting to be MORE than a friend.

Don't worry, your sickness can be healed.  Ask him more questions about himself.  If the bad evidence keeps popping up, drop him like a sack of old garbage.  He's not worth your time if he doesn't believe the same things.  If you want to take a risk, take it.  But I think you would just be asking for trouble...

The girl who admires him from afar (or stalks...)

If you are a stalker, STOP IT NOW.  If you just love to look at him, welcome to the club.  Many a boys have I admired from afar.  It's one of my favorite past times!  If you don't talk to him, find a way TO talk to him.  Get the real info straight from him...  See if he is all you thought he was, and if he is (the good stuff I mean) go for him!  If he isn't, well, do I have to use the metaphor about the hammers again?  No?  Ok good... It's a little bit too cliche.

Girlfriend, go get your guy.  If you, in fact, still want him after discovering all his secrets.  Remember, don't compromise your ethics and morals for his.  He could just be a one night stand, one never knows...  Keep your chin up, and tell me how it all works out!

-Megs